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“in the silence behind what can be heard lies the answers we have been saerching for so long’’

Andreas fransson

একটা পোকার ভোঁ ভোঁ আওয়াজ অনেকক্ষণ মাথার মধ্যে বাজছিল।

খুব সহজেই ওকে দেখেও না দেখার ভান করে চলে যেতে পারতাম আমি।হয়ত,সেটাই ও চেয়েছিল।

গরমের দিন সন্ধেবেলায় আশ্চর্য হাওয়াটার জন্য অথবা অন্য কোনও কারণে,জানি না কলোনির মোড়ের ওপর আমাদের দেখা হয়ে গেল। আমরা কথা বললাম তবে সেই কোনও কথাই বিশেষ গুরুত্বপূর্ণ ছিল না। মোটামুটি দশটা মিনিট কাটিয়ে ফেলা যায় এমন কিছু হাল্কা কথা আমাদের মধ্যে ভাসছিল। তবে কথা বলতে বলতে আমার চোখ বারবার সরে যাচ্ছিল ওর গলার দিকে,মাঝে মাঝে কথার মধ্যে মধ্যে মধ্যে ওর বুকের দিকে। আমি যথাসম্ভব নিজেকে সরিয়ে রাখতে চাইছিলাম। থেকে। তবে একটা চিন্তা কিছুতেই আমার মাথা থেকে সরে যাচ্ছিল না।ঠিক এগারো বছর আগে এই গলা,বুক আমার সম্পত্তি ছিল- এই শরীরটা আমি অনায়াসে ছুঁতে পারতাম, এমনকি খুব ঘনিষ্ঠ সময়ে সেই অধিকার নিয়ে কথা বলে একে অপরকে উত্তেজিত করতাম।

এগারো বছর পর প্রাক্তন প্রেমিকার সঙ্গে সংসার,পরিবার,দায়-দায়িত্ব নিয়ে অনর্থক কথা বলার ক্লান্তি আমাকে সেই মুহূর্তে উন্মাদ করে তুলছিল।আমি মন দিচ্ছিলাম না তবে আমার হয়ে কেউ যেন ওর সঙ্গে অনর্গল নিতান্ত মধ্যমেধার কথা বলে যাচ্ছে।

‘আমার হয়ে কেউ’ – বিষয়টা খুবই ভয়ানক যদিও।

তুমি কী করছো এখন?

আমাকে কী প্রশ্নটা করছে ও?নিজেকে একটু গুছিয়ে নিচ্ছি আমি।তবে কিছুতেই প্রশ্নটার মধ্যে নিজেকে ঢুকিয়ে নিতে পারছি না।আরও গভীরে ঢোকার চেষ্টা করছি প্রশ্নটার।আরও গভীরে গিয়ে প্রশ্নটা যেন আমার ভেতরে বারবার করে বেজে চলেছে।

কিছুক্ষণ পর চলে গেলো এবং ঠিক সেই মুহূর্তে গোটা কলোনির মোড়ের ভিড়ের মধ্যে আমি অসম্ভব একা অনুভব করলাম।

একা। নিঃসঙ্গ…

ডানদিকে বিরাট মূর্তিটার নীচে কিছু ছাট নকশাল বৃদ্ধ বসে বসে গোটা শহরটাকে দেখে।শহরটাকে দেখে নাকি মোড়ের মাথায় তাদের দেখার বস্তু চাকরি ফেরৎ মেয়েদের যৌবন? কিছু পত্রিকার সাংবাদিক তাদের সঙ্গে বসে যৌন ইয়ার্কি করে।তাদের কালো ছোপ ছোপ ধারালো দাঁত নিয়ে কুৎসিত হেসে ওঠে মাঝে মাঝে। নিজের উনিশ বছর বয়সের কথা মনে পরে।এই কলোনি মোড়ের ওপর দাঁড়িয়ে মনে হত-

আমি এই শহরটার রাজা হব একদিন।

তক্ষুনি একটা ভয়াবহ দুর্ঘটনা ঘটল।

একটা সাইকেল লড়িটাকে পাশ কাটিয়ে যেতে গিয়েই পড়লো চাকার তলায়। ব্যাস,সেখানেই সব শেষ।একেবারে মাথার ওপর দিয়ে চলে গেছে লড়িটা। মধ্যবয়সী কোনও লোক,বাজার করে ফিরছিল হয়ত।সমস্ত রাস্তা জুড়ে রক্তে মাখামাখি আনাজ তরকারি ছড়িয়ে রয়েছে।একটা জটলা হয়েছে ওখানে। সকলে দেখছে কীভাবে মানুষের রক্ত গড়িয়ে যায়।দেখছে ফেটে যাওয়া খুলি দেখতে ঠিক কেমন লাগে। কেউ কেউ উঠে পড়েছে চালকের আসনে। কলার ধরে টেনে নামাচ্ছে চালককে।

-‘শুয়োরের বাচ্চা,নাম,বাঞ্চোদ’

উত্তেজিত জনতার সবাই ‘বাঞ্চোদ’ নামক গালাগালির প্রকৃত অর্থ জানে না।এই সমস্ত কিছু গালাগালি তারা মুখস্থ করে রাখে।

কিছুই মনে হল না। রক্ত হয়ত কিছুটা মারিয়েই রাস্তাটা পার হয়ে গেলাম ঐ পারে। বন্ধ হয়ে যাওয়া ওষুধের দোকানের সামনে একটা সিগারেট ধরালাম। যদিও সিগারেট আমি খাইনা।সিগারেট খেলে মুখের ভেতর একটা তিতো স্বাদ লাগে।জীবনের সমস্ত মিস্টতা আমি আস্বাদন করতে চাই এবং নির্লজ্জ ভাবে বেঁচে থাকতে চাই বছরের পর বছর। তবু সিগারেট আমি ধরালাম।

ক্লাবের কাছে যে পুরনো রকটায় একসময় ছিল মস্তানদের আড্ডা তা এখন দখল করেছে কিছু বুদ্ধিজীবী লোক। মস্তানগুলো সব বুড়ো হয়ে হেজে গেছে। কতগুলো নিজেদের মধ্যে মারামারি করে মরেছে। বাকিগুলো মরেছে মধুমেহ ও হৃদয়জনিত রোগে। এই শহরে রঙিন জামা পড়া এবং মুখে চুরুট আটা মস্তানদের অভাব অনুভব করি আমি।

বুদ্ধিজীবীদের থেকেই আজকের বিশেষ খবরটি পেলাম।

আমাদের শহরে নাকি সেই বিখ্যাত বিদেশী কোম্পানিটি তাদের কারখানা খুলতে চলেছে যারা মানুষের দীর্ঘায়ুর জন্য এক প্রকার তেল আবিস্কার করে পৃথিবী কাঁপিয়ে দিয়েছে।তাদের দাবি তেলটির নিয়মিত ব্যবহারে নাকি মানুষের শরীরের আয়ু দু’শো বছর অবধি বেড়ে যাবে।

এই শহরে কারখানা।

জায়গা কোথায়?

প্রশ্ন যে আমার কেবলমাত্র এইটেই এমন না।আরও কতগুলো গুরুত্বপূর্ণ প্রশ্ন আছে।তার মধ্যে সবথেকে গুরুত্বপূর্ণ এই যে-

মানুষের শরীরের আয়ু নয় বেড়ে গেলো দু’শো বছর কিন্তু মানুষের আত্মার আয়ু?সেটি বাড়া নিয়ে কি কোনও প্রস্তাব দিয়েছেন সংস্থা?

কীরকম দাম হবে গো? জনসাধারণের সাধ্যের মধ্যে?

বুদ্ধিজীবীদের থেকে এই প্রশ্নের উত্তর পেলাম না।এই প্রশ্ন এবং তেল তৈরির কারখানা নিয়ে আমার বিশেষ আগ্রহ নেই যদিও।শুধুমাত্র ভেবে যাচ্ছি আমাদের এই ঘিঞ্জি শহরটায় এতবড় একটা কারখানা তৈরির জন্য জায়গা কীভাবে পাওয়া যাবে?

তাহলে কি ওরা শহরের পুরনো বাড়ি কিনে নেবে সস্তায়?

এমন হতেই পারে যে আমাদের এখানকার বড় কাছারি মাঠটা ওরা কিনে নিল।তবে এমন হওয়ার সম্ভাবনা খুবই কম।তাহলে বড় বড় রাজনৈতিক সমাবেশগুলো করবেই বা কোথায়?

যে জমিটা চিড়িয়াখানা করার জন্য সরকার বরাদ্দ করেছে সেই জায়গাটাও ওদের দিয়ে দিতে পারে সরকার।মানুষের এমন এক যুগান্তকারী আবিস্কারের জন্য তো সরকারের এগিয়ে আসা উচিৎ।

তবে ভোট দাতাদের আয়ু বেড়ে যাক,এটা হয়ত কোনও সরকারই তেমনভাবে চায়না।বেশি আয়ু মানে বেশি অভিজ্ঞতা।বেশি অভিজ্ঞতা মানে…

পুরনো গলিটায় এক টিউশন ফেরৎ মেয়ের পিছু নিলাম। পেছন থেকে দেখতে বেশ লাগছে।ঘাড়ের ওপরে কিশোরী চুলগুলো এসে পড়েছে।রোগা শরীরের তুলনায় পিঠের ব্যাগটি বেশিই বড়।সালোয়ারটা বোধহয় কিছু বছর পুরনো।নিশ্চিত,এখনও স্কুল পার করেনি।কিছুটা দূরত্ব রেখেই ওর পিছু নিয়েছি। একটি ত্রিশ বছরের যুবক একজন ষোলো সতেরো বছরের যুবতীর পিছু নিয়েছে- বিষয়টিকে ঠিক এভাবেই সহজভাবে নেওয়া যেতে পারে। কিন্তু পিছু নিয়েছি কেন?এর কোনও উত্তর আমার জানা নেই। হয়ত পিছু নেওয়া নয়, ওর পিছন পিছন হেঁটে যেতে আমার ভালো লাগছে।ভালো লাগছে ওর বয়স।

কী?কেন?কীভাবে? এসবের কোনও মানে হয় না।

আমি ওর পিঠ থেকে নিজের চোখ সরাচ্ছি না।কোনও অপরাধবোধ আমার হচ্ছে না।আমরা এগোতে এগোতে অনেকটা অন্ধকার পথে চলে এসেছি। ঠিক তক্ষুনি একটি ছেলে বিপরীত দিক থেকে এসে দাঁড়ালো মেয়েটির সামনে। একজন কিশোর ছেলে,সুন্দর,উজ্জ্বল। ওর প্রেমিক?

ওরা দাঁড়িয়ে রইলো।

আমার ভেতরটা গুলিয়ে উঠলো কেমন। তীব্র একটা কষ্ট গলার কাছে কেমন আটকে গেলো হঠাৎ। মাথা নিচু করে কি অসম্ভব অপরাধ নিয়ে আমি এগিয়ে গেলাম সামনের রাস্তায়।

সবকিছুর একটা অভ্যেস হয়ে যায়।

ছেলেটি কি মেয়েটিকে আজ একটা চুমু খাবে?

অন্ধকার গলির সুযোগ নিয়ে ওরা কি কিছুটা খুচরো যৌনতা করে নিতে পারবে?

ওরা কি এখনও জানে যে ভালোবাসা একটা বয়সের পর কি বিপজ্জনক ভাবে অলৌকিক মনে হয়?

বড় রাস্তা দিয়ে একটা মিছিল চলে গেল। মিছিলের বক্তব্য কিছুই বোঝা গেল না। কয়েকটা লোক চিৎকার করতে করতে চলে গেলো শুধু।পেছন পেছন এক গুচ্ছ গাড়ি নিয়ম মেনে চলেছে।একটা এ্যাম্বুলেন্স আটকে পড়েছে সেই যানজটে।

পেছনের কয়েকটা লোক ‘ছেড়ে দাও,ছেড়ে দাও’ বলে পথ করে দিচ্ছে।

আমার মনে হল অ্যাম্বুলেন্সে রোগী কেউ নেই।শুধুই ধাপ্পা দিয়ে তাড়াতাড়ি যাওয়ার জন্যই ওমন করে হুটার বাজিয়ে দিয়েছে ওরা।আরও ভালো করে দেখতে চাইলাম ভেতরটা।সত্যিই ভেতরে কেউ অসুস্থ নেই?সত্যিই নেই!

বাড়ি ফেরার পথে একটা সস্তার ক্যাফেতে গিয়ে কফি অর্ডার দিলাম।আমার পকেটে কিছু মাত্র টাকা অবশিষ্ট আছে।

কাউন্টারের মেয়েটিকে এক ঝলক দেখেই উত্তেজিত হয়েছি।একটু ঝুঁকে,হাসি মুখে বললাম- একটা কফি।সে আমার চমৎকার চেহারা দেখে হয়ত কিছুটা আকর্ষণ অনুভব করছে।মেয়েদের কীভাবে আকর্ষণ করতে হয় সেই পদ্ধতিটা এখন আমি অনায়াসে রপ্ত করতে পেরেছি ।ওর চোখে মুখে এক দুষ্টুমির হাসি।এই মুহূর্তে ক্যাফেতে কেউ নেই।জিজ্ঞেস করলাম

-‘এখানেই বাড়ি?’

-‘হ্যাঁ’

-কোথায়?

যে নামটি ও বলল অনেক স্মৃতি হাতরেও সেই জায়গাটির নাম মনে করতে পারলাম না।তাহলে কি আমি এই শহরটিকে ধীরে ধীরে ভুলে যাচ্ছি?বা এই শহর ধীরে ধীরে ভুলে যাচ্ছে আমাকে?

ওর ফোন নম্বরের এগারোটি সংখ্যা টুকে নিলাম ন্যাপকিনের ওপরে।পকেটে ঢুকিয়ে রাখলাম।আজকের মতো রাতটুকু কেটে যাবে।

বেরোনোর আগে একবার পেছন ফিরে ওকে জিজ্ঞেস করলাম-

-তুমি কি এখনও বামপন্থায় বিশ্বাস করো?

মেয়েটি কোনও উত্তর দিতে পারলো না।বুঝলাম,এই নিয়ে ওর কোনও মতামত নেই।

স্বস্তি পেলাম।

এগারোটি নম্বর একটা রাতের জন্য যথেষ্ট।হয়ত বা আরও একটা রাত।

জায়গাটির নাম মনে করতে পারলাম না বলে মনের ভেতর কেমন খচখচ করতে লাগলো।কিছুতেই স্মৃতি হাতরে জায়গাটি মনে করতে পারলাম না।অথচ,একদিন কত অনায়াসে আমি নাম শুনেই চিনে নিতে পারতাম জায়গাগুলোকে।

গেট ঠেলে ভেতরে ঢুকে গেলাম ভেতরে।চারিদিকে সারি সারি কবর এবং তাদের শাদা পাথরের স্তব্ধতা।কত নাম,তাদের জন্ম ও মৃত্যু তারিখ।কিছু কবর নতুন,কিছু খুব পুরনো।আরও ভেতরে ঢুকে গেলাম।এই দিকটায় গাছ,ঝোপঝাড় বেশি।মাঝারি আকারের কবর বেছে নিলাম বসার জন্য।কতদিন পর এই জায়গাটায় এসেছি।ছোটবেলায় মন খারাপ হলে লুকিয়ে থাকতাম এখানে। একবার বাবার সঙ্গে তুমুল ঝামেলার পর সারাদিন বসে ছিলাম এখানে।বাড়ির লোক খুঁজে খুঁজে পাগল হয়ে গেছিল।এখন কেউ খুঁজতে আসেনা আমাকে।

উনিশ বছর বয়সে ভেবেছিলাম এই শহরটার রাজা হব।

আজ এগারো বছর পর আমার পকেটে একটা ন্যাপকিন এবং এগারোটি নম্বর।যার নম্বর আমি তার নাম অবধি জানিনা।আমি জানিনা এই নম্বরের সবকটি ঠিক কিনা।হয়ত টেলিফোন করে দেখবো আমাকে নম্বরটি সে ভুল দিয়েছে।

অথবা এমন হতে পারে যে টেলিফোন বেজে গেলো অথচ কেউ তুললো না।

আমার এই পুরনো শহরটার ভেতর একটা মাঝারি আকারের কবরের ওপর বসে জীবনের কথা ভাবতে আমার ভালো লাগছিল।ধীরে ধীরে কমে আসছে কোলাহল।জোনাকিদের একটা ঝাঁক কোথা থেকে যেন বেরিয়ে এসে উড়ে বেড়াচ্ছে আমার চারিদিকে।ঠিক সেই মুহূর্তে আমি বানিয়ে তোলা কোনও আশাকেই বিশ্বাস করতে পারছিলাম না।আমি শুনতে পারছিলাম কোনও এক অদৃশ্য বেহালাবাদক আকাশে বাতাসে বাজিয়ে চলেছে তার সুর।আমি শুধু সেই সুরটুকু শুনতে পাচ্ছিলাম।

ঠিক সেই মুহূর্তে আমি ঈশ্বরকে বিশ্বাস করতে পারছিলাম না,কোনও স্থির সংসারি জীবনের সুখকে বিশ্বাস করতে পারছিলাম না।আমি বিশ্বাস করতে পারছিলাম না মানুষের আয়ু বাড়িয়ে তোলা কোনও কারখানা,কিশোরীর কানের পাশে উড়ন্ত চুল এমনকি একটা রাজনৈতিক মিছিলের ভেতর একটা অ্যাম্বুলেন্সের হুটারকে।

আমি শুধু বিশ্বাস করতে পারছি আমার পকেটের ভেতর একটা শাদা ন্যাপকিন।

তার ভেতরে লেখা টেলিফোনের এগারোটি নম্বর যা যে কোনও সময়েই মিথ্যে হয়ে যেতে পারে।

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    Great site! Met some great people and got chatting on the phone with a local using the ‘Talk Live’ feature. I wasn’t expecting much from the whole ‘online dating’ thing other than a bit of joking around and wind-ups, a lot of the feedback from web dating isn’t that reassuring. After signing up for a trial I had a lazy look around the site, but didn’t make much of it, it looks well designed and is easy to navigate, but the abundance of options was a bit overwhelming for a beginner like me. I didn’t go back to it until a few weeks later, I was bored and lonely on a Saturday afternoon and the reason that I joined a dating site became very much apparent again! So i had another crack at it and decided to try and get something out of it this time. After I made the effort to fill in my profile and what I was looking for in a match things got better very quickly. Got chatting with a member who at my request agreed to having a chat over the phone (this might scare some people or way or sound a bit forward, but the talk live feature uses an anonymous caller id so neither party’s numbers are given away, so it’s less of a big deal), and started up a bit of a regular thing with her! Maybe I’m lucky, or maybe it’s my good looks and charm;). Since then we’ve been on a couple of nights out together and get on well… I haven’t been online since! Fingers crossed!!!

  7029. Pros and cons
    No matter how dubious a site may be, there are usually some redeeming aspects. In the case of Flirt.com, however, the “positives” come off as thinly veiled criticisms:

    PositivesNegatives
    No real women on the site
    You can’t read messages or reply to them unless you pay
    Even if you pay for a membership, none of the “women” will reply to you
    Chatting and messaging
    My messaging experience on this website would be great if there were real users on it. The layout is so intuitive and easy to use but any attempt to talk to someone brings you to this:

    Payment page to reply to a message

    Even when I got a pop-up window in the corner like the one below, I can’t reply. The moment I clicked in the text field to reply, I’m taken to that same subscription page.

    Pop-up message

    It’s quite disheartening, really. Yakf3 assured me that I wouldn’t regret meeting her, yet it seems I may never get the chance now. This problem persisted with every bot that messaged me.

    As illustrated in our recommendation, some messages don’t even reveal their initial content. You receive a notification that someone messaged you, but to view it, you must upgrade to a premium account.

    Alternatives to Apps For Normal Guys Recommended By Dating Experts

    If you haven’t been getting good results from dating apps you’re probably using the wrong apps. There are a few options out there that we’ve been seeing a lot of regular guys do really well with that you need to try:

    Who’s Flaking?
    Screentshots from our review of Flirt.com
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    Online dating is a fantastic thing when you find a website or app that really works for you. With estimates as high as 8,000 dating sites available worldwide, however, it can be hard to discern which dating websites are complete wastes of time. In preparing for this Flirt.com review, I saw a very familiar template and knew exactly what I was looking at. Here’s a sneak peek:

    Site Our Experience Our Rating Free Trial Link

    Best for hookups
    Experience Highlights
    Experience Highlights
    Best results for regular guys
    Over 60 million active members
    Our top hookup site for the year
    Not good for long-term relationships
    9
    Try AFF For Free
    Experience Highlights
    Experience Highlights
    No real women on the site
    You need to pay to message anyone
    Even if you pay for a membership, none of the “women” will reply to you
    3
    Try Flirt.com
    We like to do a lot of dating site reviews here at Beyond Ages to eliminate fake sites and time wasters. Since your online dating experience can only be as good as the website you use, it’s an important factor. By pointing you in the right direction with a detailed review, you can spend more time on actual dates. That’s how it’s meant to work, right?

    You need to be using at least one or two of the top dating apps right now if you want to get any real results. So many people exclusively look online now, thanks social distancing, that you can’t avoid it even if you want to. Fortunately there are a few great options out there for most people, you just need to do your research first.

    How we reviewed Flirt.com
    A lot of the reviews seem to cover the site based on a cursory glance. Rather than just talking about how the site looks and how I assume it would function, I want to go deeper.
    I’ll always set up a free profile, only filling out the mandatory fields at first. What I’m looking for here is to see if I’ll receive a bunch of inbox spam. Fake dating websites will often have a bunch of fake accounts that try to fool you into signing up for their premium service. Since no real user would message a blank profile, a busy inbox straight away means you’re seeing spambots.

    No matter how this turns out, I’ll then use the site for a week or two with this free account. I’ll add profile photos and complete my bio like normal. My aim is to set up as many dates as possible as a free user. I’m looking to see if it’s even possible and if so, how the experience compares to some of the more popular sites. After that, I move on to a paid account several weeks after that. I want to see if the premium perks make it any easier for me to set up dates.

    All in all, I end up with a far better understanding of what it’s like to actually use the site. This makes for a far more informative review. If I can save just one person from being scammed, all this effort is totally worthwhile.

    Every BeyondAges writer follows strict and verifiable guidelines. Unlike other dating sites, our reviews are always up-to-date and sourced by local experts–not rehashes of stuff you can find elsewhere.

    Methodology Description
    Rigorous Testing Conducting thorough reviews of dating apps and websites through extensive use over weeks/months.
    Anecdotal Experience Utilizing the practical experiences of a large team of dating and relationship coaches.
    Expertise Leveraging decades of practice in the dating scene to provide up-to-date and impactful advice. We balance subjectivity in an objective framework to give our readers a more wholistic frame of reference for modern dating.
    Continuous Learning Exploring new approaches to dating success to ensure advice remains relevant and effective. This includes out-of-the-box thinking to discover new trends and hacks.
    Online Focus We place a significant focus on how online dating and virtual communication affect modern dating dynamics. From apps, sites, chat rooms, video calls – we delve deep into the pros and cons.
    User Engagement Engaging with readers to comment and share their experiences to build a vibrant community, enhance trust, and ultimately create a better dating experience.
    Affiliate Disclaimer:
    At BeyondAges.com, some of our links are affiliate links, meaning we may earn a commission if you click on them and make a purchase at no additional cost to you. This does not influence our content; our opinions, reviews, and articles are based on objective analysis and remain unbiased.

    Please note that we do not directly sell products; our links lead to third-party websites with their own terms and policies. Your support through these links helps us maintain our site and continue delivering valuable content to our community.

    Thank you for trusting BeyondAges.com and being a part of our journey.

    Our Full Flirt.com Review: Fun or None?
    No need to hide the conclusion for this site all the way at the bottom. It’s part of a massive network of fake dating websites that seem to point back to TopOffers.com. If you’re not familiar with this network, I’d suggest reading through the rest of Flirt review anyway. The more you can understand and look out for these fake sites, the safer your credit card will be.

    AFF (which you can try for free) is one of the largest hookup sites out there right now and where we’ve seen guys especially get good results, which makes it Flirt.com’s biggest competitor. A great first step to any review is a brief comparison between the best option out there (AFF) and Flirt.

    So, below is a quick comparison so you can see how the two stack up.

    Site logo Adult FriendFinder Logo
    Overall
    3
    9.5
    Quality of Women
    2
    9
    Popularity
    4
    9
    Usability
    10
    10
    Privacy & Safety
    8
    10
    Effectiveness
    1
    9
    Value
    1
    10
    VISIT FLIRT NOW
    → CLICK TO TRY AFF FOR FREE ←
    Our Recommendation
    In all honesty, Flirt.com disappoints on almost every front except usability. While the website’s layout is user-friendly and easy to navigate, it serves no real purpose when the only “women” I ended up conversing with turned out to be individuals located who knows where. Overall, my experience left much to be desired.

    The initial giveaway was the profiles themselves. Most of the profiles I encountered were nearly empty, containing only basic information. I frequently encountered profiles of women seeking men aged 18-96, which deviates from the norm where most dating apps feature users with more specific criteria for potential matches.

    Here is a screenshot of the typical interactions I experienced with users who messaged me. In my experience, nobody initiates a conversation like this. Typically, women would begin with a simple “hi,” “hello,” or a comment about your profile. However, the messages I received from Flirt.com users appeared to be generated by bots. It immediately put me on guard, signaling that I was dealing with a low-quality site primarily focused on coaxing users into subscribing to their premium services.

    Questionable message 1

    Questionable message 2

    When you compare it to the top sites out there now, like AFF, it looks even worse.

    I was looking for a hookup, so I used AFF instead. They boast over 60 million (real) users and are specifically targeted at hookups. I can send a handful of messages and expect a few replies even if my messages might be branded as “generic”. It’s infinitely better than giving this dodgy network your hard-earned money.

    If AFF doesn’t do it for you, we recently reviewed all of the top dating apps and websites out there. Have a look through that list and see what appeals to you most.

    How Did I Recognize That This Site Was Suspicious?
    After spending extensive time writing detailed dating site reviews, I’ve become acquainted with larger networks in the industry. In the case of TopOffers, a significant portion of their websites seems to share the same template and tactics. I’ve examined and reviewed these sites, and I could quickly discern that Flirt.com was just another site in their lineup of subpar dating platforms. Take a look at the five other sites within their network, and you’ll notice the striking similarity. As evident, Flirt.com closely resembles them as well.

    Site design similar to other sites
    Site design similar to other sites

    Other sites with a similar design

    They seem to register a collection of cringe domain names like “Shagaholic.com” then duplicate the site over and over. About the only thing that really changes is the color scheme, honestly. So, the moment I logged into with my free account I knew exactly what to expect and I wasn’t surprised.

    hey seem to register an array of cringe-worthy domain names like “Shagaholic.com” and replicate the same site repeatedly. The primary difference typically lies in the color scheme. Consequently, the moment I logged into my free account, I immediately recognized what to expect, and I was far from surprised.

    What Is This “Top Offers” You Keep Mentioning? As I delved deeper into writing more dating site reviews, I began noticing recurring names in the footer. The more closely I examined, the more connections I unearthed. It turns out this network comprises a whopping 218 fake dating websites! Most of these fall under one of six shell companies:

    Bulova Invest Ltd
    Together Networks Holdings Limited
    Nelfor Services Limited
    Timespace Holdings Limited
    Kingsrock Holdings Ltd
    Northlock Holdings Ltd
    If you ever encounter any of these names in a dating website’s footer, it’s time to cancel your account. In my years of scrutinizing dating sites, I knew that any site affiliated with these companies would adopt the same template, employ the same tactics, and ultimately disappoint users—no meaningful connections, money wasted, and the looming concern that my credit card details might be misused.

    What Makes These Sites So Dubious?
    A legitimate question indeed and one that deserves an answer. In essence, nothing about the 218 sites within their network is genuine, but they employ tactics to feign authenticity. I would incessantly receive messages from profiles on the site, but they were all either hidden behind a paywall or required payment to reply. These would typically be flirtatious messages from bots aiming to deceive me into subscribing to a premium account. With any site resorting to such tactics, I could never recommend divulging your credit card information.

    What makes these sites so bad?
    This is a fair question and an important one to answer. In short, nothing about the 218 sites in their network are legitimate, but they use tactics to pretend otherwise. I would constantly receive messages from profiles on the site but they’re all behind a paywall or I had to pay to reply. These will be flirty messages from a bot that tried to trick me into paying for a premium account. With any site that’s going to use tactics like these, I could never suggest handing over your credit card information.

    Conversation behind a paywall
    Conversation behind a paywall

    Moreover, as I discovered in my Flirt review, they will utilize your information to populate their other websites as well. They replicate your profile on other dubious “dating” platforms, making you unwittingly endorse their bots.

    It’s essentially a colossal affiliate network—where you are the product. As the saying goes, “If you’re not paying for it, you’re the product.”

    My Advice: The moment you encounter this template and receive suspicious messages from “users” claiming to be single women interested in meeting up, run. Be vigilant for messages that feel inauthentic. While users on this site may appear overly eager to interact, exercise caution. Chances are, they are merely trying to coax you into subscribing without any assurance of an actual meetup.

    Instead of squandering your time on sites like Flirt.com, I recommend opting for a more trustworthy dating platform. If you’re seeking hookups, I suggest using Adult FriendFinder (AFF). In my experience, no other platform surpasses AFF when it comes to facilitating casual encounters. Unlike Tinder, where your profile picture often dictates your entire experience, AFF places a more significant emphasis on genuine sexual chemistry. Furthermore, you have the advantage of filtering users based on your preferences, ensuring you find plenty of singles who align with your desires. Need more details? Check out our full review of Adult FriendFinder to know more about why we always recommend this site!

    Between Adult FriendFinder and Flirt.com, the choice is clear, and I wholeheartedly endorse AFF. I believe you should too!

    Learn More about Fake Dating Sites with Beyond Ages:
    Want to learn more about more fake dating sites like Flirt.com? Read our popular guide, The List of Fake Dating Sites You Should Avoid, and learn about some commonly-known and not-so-commonly-known scam sites out there:

    Author: Tom Senkus, Dating And Relationship Expert

    Excerpt: “Scammer dating sites often use overly attractive profiles to entice users. If something seems too good to be true, it probably is.

    There are a couple of signs to look for when screening overly attractive profiles:

    All of their photos look professional and possibly sourced from a modeling agency

    None of their photos have local landmarks or locations that match their stated location

    Their profile has “salesy” language that seems to be flattering to the reader without any specifics (“I’m looking for an older man that’s looking to settle down…”)

    Their profile seems to be generated by AI (artificial intelligence)

    Overtly sexual language meant to entice users

    Sales funnels like OnlyFans or contacting on alternative messaging platforms (like Snapchat for trading pics)

    A large difference between the quality of profiles for legitimate profiles versus ones you suspect to be fake. Not to be negative, but exceptionally model-tier attractive people tend to not use dating apps regularly (or they use exclusive luxury dating apps,). If you find too many attractive women on a relatively new app, for instance, you can reasonably assume that the developers are “padding” the available matches.”

    Expert Publications on Online Dating Site Scams
    The rabbit hole goes deep when it comes to online dating scams and the behavior of vast criminal networks around the world. If you’re curious to learn more about avoiding scams, there are plenty of academic studies where you can learn about which scams are more prevalent, how sites are attempting to prevent illegal/manipulative behavior, and more:

    Ignatius Hua Nyam – Lecturer, Department of Liberal Studies/Directorate of Policing Training Nigeria Police Academy, Wudil-Kano State- Nigeria

    “There are several reasons behind the propagation of online scams. An individual’s greed of sharing the wealth with a specificwealthy online partner is one of the reasons. Poverty also drives desperate individuals into cybercrime that involves romance scams. Some victims are affected because they did not know any better. While their desire to have emotional attachment trap others.

    Chenyang Wang

    “In an era of widespread mass marketing scams on the Internet, many victims have reported varying degrees of financial loss and psychological damage after encountering lottery scams and advance payment scams. Among them, the emotional damage to victims of online dating scams may be even more severe because the whole scam process involves mental attachment, sexual abuse, and relationship breakdown. There is little help and support for victims throughout the scam process and even after the scam is over, which not only makes it difficult for victims to get timely and professional assistance after experiencing online scams, but victims even run the risk of being scammed by criminals again afterward, so timely help and professional psychological treatment for victims is of positive significance. In previous studies, there are fewer reports summarizing and analyzing the psychological conditions of victims.”

    Fangzhou Wang, Assistant Professor of Criminology and Criminal Justice, University of Texas at Arlington

    “Our observations indicate that scammers not only diversify their approaches to prompt more responses, such as appealing to their romantic relationships, asking for identifying information and requesting victims switch to private chat platforms, but they also use several techniques for getting victims to overcome their misgivings about sending the scammers more money. For example, scammers subtly persuade victims to see themselves as holding more power in the interaction than they do.”

    What’s your experience been like using Flirt? Comment below and share your experience with the BeyondAges community.
    VISIT FLIRT NOW
    → CLICK TO TRY AFF FOR FREE ←
    Pros and cons
    No matter how dubious a site may be, there are usually some redeeming aspects. In the case of Flirt.com, however, the “positives” come off as thinly veiled criticisms:

    PositivesNegatives
    No real women on the site
    You can’t read messages or reply to them unless you pay
    Even if you pay for a membership, none of the “women” will reply to you
    Chatting and messaging
    My messaging experience on this website would be great if there were real users on it. The layout is so intuitive and easy to use but any attempt to talk to someone brings you to this:

    Payment page to reply to a message

    Even when I got a pop-up window in the corner like the one below, I can’t reply. The moment I clicked in the text field to reply, I’m taken to that same subscription page.

    Pop-up message

    It’s quite disheartening, really. Yakf3 assured me that I wouldn’t regret meeting her, yet it seems I may never get the chance now. This problem persisted with every bot that messaged me.

    As illustrated in our recommendation, some messages don’t even reveal their initial content. You receive a notification that someone messaged you, but to view it, you must upgrade to a premium account.

    Alternatives to Apps For Normal Guys Recommended By Dating Experts

    If you haven’t been getting good results from dating apps you’re probably using the wrong apps. There are a few options out there that we’ve been seeing a lot of regular guys do really well with that you need to try:

    Site Our Experience Our Rating Free Trial Link
    Best For Relationships
    Experience Highlights
    Experience Highlights
    Easily the best option for long-term relationships
    75% of all online marriages start here
    70% of users meet their spouse within a year
    In-depth signup and matching process
    9
    Try eHarmony
    Best For Casual Fun
    Experience Highlights
    Experience Highlights
    The best way to meet women for casual relationships
    Best results for regular guys
    Over 60 million active members
    Not good for long-term relationships
    9
    Try AFF For Free
    Great If You’re Handsome
    Tinder Highlights
    Tinder Highlights
    Great if you’re pretty good looking
    Very popular, especially if you’re 18-22
    Really focused on photos
    Becoming more of a dating than hookup app
    8
    Try Tinder
    What Can You Do With a Free Membership on Flirt.com?
    Curious about the features available with a free membership on Flirt.com? Here’s what you get:

    A chance to become a star: The only real opportunity with a free profile is the potential to unwittingly become a face associated with various brands. Who wouldn’t want their image linked to “Shagaholic,” right?

    Advertisements
    A significant red flag indicating that a dating site isn’t what it claims to be is the presence of numerous advertisements. Unlike legitimate sites like AFF or eHarmony, which sustain themselves through subscriptions, Flirt.com seems to thrive on ad revenue.

    Interestingly, Flirt.com doesn’t display ads anywhere. While most lookalike sites I’ve reviewed feature numerous ads, Flirt took a different approach. Since it’s part of an affiliate network, ad revenue alone likely sustains it.

    Need to Block Ads?
    PC Magazine has a great article on how to block ads you’ll come across on dating sites like Firt. Here’s a great excerpt from Max Eddy, Lead Security Analyst at PC Magazine, in their guide “The Best Ad Blockers for 2023”:

    “While legitimate ads can be annoying enough, some ads are deceptive or even dangerous. Some take over your screen, claiming to be from law enforcement and demanding you pay a hefty (and spurious) fine. Some online ads pretend to be from antivirus scanners, proclaiming you’ve been infected and need to download their malware protection solution, which might itself be malicious or simply a way to scare you into buying a subscription you don’t need.”

    Safety & Precautions: Potential Emotional Risks of Online Dating
    One of the little-discussed phenomena about online dating is the emotional side of hookup culture. In a recent article from The Cut, a number of academics and professionals remark on the risks that men and women may endure when seeking relationships online. Do yourself a favor and read the original article (link here). To give you a preview, here are some of the most relevant quotes:

    Lisa Wade, associate professor at Tulane University and the author of American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus, says she has noticed most of her college students are, at best, ambivalent about hookup culture due to the negative connotations that come with this type of sexual interaction: “This is because of awkward hookup interactions, heartbreak, and women feeling disrespected by male sexual partners and having to constantly face the risk of sexual violence.” Wade also makes the case that college students may “feel excluded or targeted because of their race, class, ability, looks, gender identity, or gender expression”.
    Sex therapist Dr. Lexx Brown-James encourages discretion when it comes to casual relationships. “What people forget about sexual liberation,” says Brown-James, “is that it’s also the right to say no. We’re starting to understand that the conversation around empowerment needs more nuances than either going out and having lots of sex as the only means of sex positivity.”

    Frequently Asked Questions About Flirt.com
    To round off this Flirt.com review, I’ll address some of the most commonly asked questions. This should provide a comprehensive overview, but feel free to reach out if you have additional inquiries.

    What Is Flirt.com?
    Flirt.com is purportedly a dating site. However, you won’t encounter any genuine users here, and the platform reserves the right to use your content for their own purposes.

    Who Actually Owns Flirt?
    Flirt is owned by Blue Vision, which also operates a network of sites following similar questionable practices.

    How Can I Contact Flirt.com?
    You can contact them via email at support@flirt.com.

    Is Flirt Real?
    Yes, Flirt.com exists as a real site. However, it’s important to note that the platform is riddled with suspicious profiles that often don’t respond to messages.

    Is Flirt.com Legit?
    Not at all. Flirt.com is part of an affiliate network and is among the 218 subpar dating websites designed to collect your credit card information.

    Is Flirt a Scam or Fake?
    It could be considered a scam, or at the very least, a dubious site. Regardless, Flirt.com doesn’t genuinely facilitate flirting with anyone. It appears more interested in obtaining your credit card information.

    Is Flirt.com Safe?
    No, Flirt.com is not a safe platform.

    What Are the Alternatives to Flirt.com?
    Flirt.com isn’t worth your time. Instead, explore our reviews of the best hookup apps and websites to find a more reliable and authentic dating experience.

    How Does Flirt.com Work?
    Flirt.com operates by masquerading as a legitimate dating site. However, once you create an account, you’ll encounter one paywall after another, urging you to purchase a premium account. Even after upgrading, the “eager” women looking to chat with you often fall silent.

    Is There a Flirt App?
    No, Flirt.com does not have a dedicated app.

    How Do You Send Messages on Flirt?
    As a paid member, you can simply click “Chat” on any user’s profile and initiate a conversation. However, since all profiles appear to be bots, there’s little point in doing so. As a free user, clicking “Chat” will redirect you to the subscription page, urging you to sign up for a paid account.

    How Much Does Flirt.com Cost?
    For those curious about Flirt.com’s pricing plans, here they are:

    One day: $0.99
    One week: $7.00 ($1 a day)
    One month: $28.80 ($0.96 a day)
    Three months: $48.60 ($0.54 a day)
    How Can You Use Flirt for Free?
    By default, when you create a Flirt.com account, you receive a free membership. This allows you to search for members and receive messages. But in my experience, you can’t send messages unless you pay for a membership.

  7030. Online dating is a fantastic thing when you find a website or app that really works for you. With estimates as high as 8,000 dating sites available worldwide, however, it can be hard to discern which dating websites are complete wastes of time. In preparing for this Flirt.com review, I saw a very familiar template and knew exactly what I was looking at. Here’s a sneak peek:

    We like to do a lot of dating site reviews here at Beyond Ages to eliminate fake sites and time wasters. Since your online dating experience can only be as good as the website you use, it’s an important factor. By pointing you in the right direction with a detailed review, you can spend more time on actual dates. That’s how it’s meant to work, right?

    You need to be using at least one or two of the top dating apps right now if you want to get any real results. So many people exclusively look online now, thanks social distancing, that you can’t avoid it even if you want to. Fortunately there are a few great options out there for most people, you just need to do your research first.

    How we reviewed Flirt.com
    A lot of the reviews seem to cover the site based on a cursory glance. Rather than just talking about how the site looks and how I assume it would function, I want to go deeper.
    I’ll always set up a free profile, only filling out the mandatory fields at first. What I’m looking for here is to see if I’ll receive a bunch of inbox spam. Fake dating websites will often have a bunch of fake accounts that try to fool you into signing up for their premium service. Since no real user would message a blank profile, a busy inbox straight away means you’re seeing spambots.

    No matter how this turns out, I’ll then use the site for a week or two with this free account. I’ll add profile photos and complete my bio like normal. My aim is to set up as many dates as possible as a free user. I’m looking to see if it’s even possible and if so, how the experience compares to some of the more popular sites. After that, I move on to a paid account several weeks after that. I want to see if the premium perks make it any easier for me to set up dates.

    All in all, I end up with a far better understanding of what it’s like to actually use the site. This makes for a far more informative review. If I can save just one person from being scammed, all this effort is totally worthwhile.

    Every BeyondAges writer follows strict and verifiable guidelines. Unlike other dating sites, our reviews are always up-to-date and sourced by local experts–not rehashes of stuff you can find elsewhere.

    Methodology Description
    Rigorous Testing Conducting thorough reviews of dating apps and websites through extensive use over weeks/months.
    Anecdotal Experience Utilizing the practical experiences of a large team of dating and relationship coaches.
    Expertise Leveraging decades of practice in the dating scene to provide up-to-date and impactful advice. We balance subjectivity in an objective framework to give our readers a more wholistic frame of reference for modern dating.
    Continuous Learning Exploring new approaches to dating success to ensure advice remains relevant and effective. This includes out-of-the-box thinking to discover new trends and hacks.
    Online Focus We place a significant focus on how online dating and virtual communication affect modern dating dynamics. From apps, sites, chat rooms, video calls – we delve deep into the pros and cons.
    User Engagement Engaging with readers to comment and share their experiences to build a vibrant community, enhance trust, and ultimately create a better dating experience.
    Affiliate Disclaimer:
    At BeyondAges.com, some of our links are affiliate links, meaning we may earn a commission if you click on them and make a purchase at no additional cost to you. This does not influence our content; our opinions, reviews, and articles are based on objective analysis and remain unbiased.

    Please note that we do not directly sell products; our links lead to third-party websites with their own terms and policies. Your support through these links helps us maintain our site and continue delivering valuable content to our community.

    Thank you for trusting BeyondAges.com and being a part of our journey.

    Our Full Flirt.com Review: Fun or None?
    No need to hide the conclusion for this site all the way at the bottom. It’s part of a massive network of fake dating websites that seem to point back to TopOffers.com. If you’re not familiar with this network, I’d suggest reading through the rest of Flirt review anyway. The more you can understand and look out for these fake sites, the safer your credit card will be.

    AFF (which you can try for free) is one of the largest hookup sites out there right now and where we’ve seen guys especially get good results, which makes it Flirt.com’s biggest competitor. A great first step to any review is a brief comparison between the best option out there (AFF) and Flirt.

    So, below is a quick comparison so you can see how the two stack up.

    Our Recommendation
    In all honesty, Flirt.com disappoints on almost every front except usability. While the website’s layout is user-friendly and easy to navigate, it serves no real purpose when the only “women” I ended up conversing with turned out to be individuals located who knows where. Overall, my experience left much to be desired.

    The initial giveaway was the profiles themselves. Most of the profiles I encountered were nearly empty, containing only basic information. I frequently encountered profiles of women seeking men aged 18-96, which deviates from the norm where most dating apps feature users with more specific criteria for potential matches.

    Here is a screenshot of the typical interactions I experienced with users who messaged me. In my experience, nobody initiates a conversation like this. Typically, women would begin with a simple “hi,” “hello,” or a comment about your profile. However, the messages I received from Flirt.com users appeared to be generated by bots. It immediately put me on guard, signaling that I was dealing with a low-quality site primarily focused on coaxing users into subscribing to their premium services.

    Questionable message 1

    Questionable message 2

    When you compare it to the top sites out there now, like AFF, it looks even worse.

    I was looking for a hookup, so I used AFF instead. They boast over 60 million (real) users and are specifically targeted at hookups. I can send a handful of messages and expect a few replies even if my messages might be branded as “generic”. It’s infinitely better than giving this dodgy network your hard-earned money.

    If AFF doesn’t do it for you, we recently reviewed all of the top dating apps and websites out there. Have a look through that list and see what appeals to you most.

    How Did I Recognize That This Site Was Suspicious?
    After spending extensive time writing detailed dating site reviews, I’ve become acquainted with larger networks in the industry. In the case of TopOffers, a significant portion of their websites seems to share the same template and tactics. I’ve examined and reviewed these sites, and I could quickly discern that Flirt.com was just another site in their lineup of subpar dating platforms. Take a look at the five other sites within their network, and you’ll notice the striking similarity. As evident, Flirt.com closely resembles them as well.

    Site design similar to other sites
    Site design similar to other sites

    Other sites with a similar design

    They seem to register a collection of cringe domain names like “Shagaholic.com” then duplicate the site over and over. About the only thing that really changes is the color scheme, honestly. So, the moment I logged into with my free account I knew exactly what to expect and I wasn’t surprised.

    hey seem to register an array of cringe-worthy domain names like “Shagaholic.com” and replicate the same site repeatedly. The primary difference typically lies in the color scheme. Consequently, the moment I logged into my free account, I immediately recognized what to expect, and I was far from surprised.

    What Is This “Top Offers” You Keep Mentioning? As I delved deeper into writing more dating site reviews, I began noticing recurring names in the footer. The more closely I examined, the more connections I unearthed. It turns out this network comprises a whopping 218 fake dating websites! Most of these fall under one of six shell companies:

    Bulova Invest Ltd
    Together Networks Holdings Limited
    Nelfor Services Limited
    Timespace Holdings Limited
    Kingsrock Holdings Ltd
    Northlock Holdings Ltd
    If you ever encounter any of these names in a dating website’s footer, it’s time to cancel your account. In my years of scrutinizing dating sites, I knew that any site affiliated with these companies would adopt the same template, employ the same tactics, and ultimately disappoint users—no meaningful connections, money wasted, and the looming concern that my credit card details might be misused.

    What Makes These Sites So Dubious?
    A legitimate question indeed and one that deserves an answer. In essence, nothing about the 218 sites within their network is genuine, but they employ tactics to feign authenticity. I would incessantly receive messages from profiles on the site, but they were all either hidden behind a paywall or required payment to reply. These would typically be flirtatious messages from bots aiming to deceive me into subscribing to a premium account. With any site resorting to such tactics, I could never recommend divulging your credit card information.

    What makes these sites so bad?
    This is a fair question and an important one to answer. In short, nothing about the 218 sites in their network are legitimate, but they use tactics to pretend otherwise. I would constantly receive messages from profiles on the site but they’re all behind a paywall or I had to pay to reply. These will be flirty messages from a bot that tried to trick me into paying for a premium account. With any site that’s going to use tactics like these, I could never suggest handing over your credit card information.

    Conversation behind a paywall
    Conversation behind a paywall

    Moreover, as I discovered in my Flirt review, they will utilize your information to populate their other websites as well. They replicate your profile on other dubious “dating” platforms, making you unwittingly endorse their bots.

    It’s essentially a colossal affiliate network—where you are the product. As the saying goes, “If you’re not paying for it, you’re the product.”

    My Advice: The moment you encounter this template and receive suspicious messages from “users” claiming to be single women interested in meeting up, run. Be vigilant for messages that feel inauthentic. While users on this site may appear overly eager to interact, exercise caution. Chances are, they are merely trying to coax you into subscribing without any assurance of an actual meetup.

    Instead of squandering your time on sites like Flirt.com, I recommend opting for a more trustworthy dating platform. If you’re seeking hookups, I suggest using Adult FriendFinder (AFF). In my experience, no other platform surpasses AFF when it comes to facilitating casual encounters. Unlike Tinder, where your profile picture often dictates your entire experience, AFF places a more significant emphasis on genuine sexual chemistry. Furthermore, you have the advantage of filtering users based on your preferences, ensuring you find plenty of singles who align with your desires. Need more details? Check out our full review of Adult FriendFinder to know more about why we always recommend this site!

    Between Adult FriendFinder and Flirt.com, the choice is clear, and I wholeheartedly endorse AFF. I believe you should too!

    Learn More about Fake Dating Sites with Beyond Ages:
    Want to learn more about more fake dating sites like Flirt.com? Read our popular guide, The List of Fake Dating Sites You Should Avoid, and learn about some commonly-known and not-so-commonly-known scam sites out there:

    Author: Tom Senkus, Dating And Relationship Expert

    Excerpt: “Scammer dating sites often use overly attractive profiles to entice users. If something seems too good to be true, it probably is.

    There are a couple of signs to look for when screening overly attractive profiles:

    All of their photos look professional and possibly sourced from a modeling agency

    None of their photos have local landmarks or locations that match their stated location

    Their profile has “salesy” language that seems to be flattering to the reader without any specifics (“I’m looking for an older man that’s looking to settle down…”)

    Their profile seems to be generated by AI (artificial intelligence)

    Overtly sexual language meant to entice users

    Sales funnels like OnlyFans or contacting on alternative messaging platforms (like Snapchat for trading pics)

    A large difference between the quality of profiles for legitimate profiles versus ones you suspect to be fake. Not to be negative, but exceptionally model-tier attractive people tend to not use dating apps regularly (or they use exclusive luxury dating apps,). If you find too many attractive women on a relatively new app, for instance, you can reasonably assume that the developers are “padding” the available matches.”

    Expert Publications on Online Dating Site Scams
    The rabbit hole goes deep when it comes to online dating scams and the behavior of vast criminal networks around the world. If you’re curious to learn more about avoiding scams, there are plenty of academic studies where you can learn about which scams are more prevalent, how sites are attempting to prevent illegal/manipulative behavior, and more:

    Ignatius Hua Nyam – Lecturer, Department of Liberal Studies/Directorate of Policing Training Nigeria Police Academy, Wudil-Kano State- Nigeria

    “There are several reasons behind the propagation of online scams. An individual’s greed of sharing the wealth with a specificwealthy online partner is one of the reasons. Poverty also drives desperate individuals into cybercrime that involves romance scams. Some victims are affected because they did not know any better. While their desire to have emotional attachment trap others.

    Chenyang Wang

    “In an era of widespread mass marketing scams on the Internet, many victims have reported varying degrees of financial loss and psychological damage after encountering lottery scams and advance payment scams. Among them, the emotional damage to victims of online dating scams may be even more severe because the whole scam process involves mental attachment, sexual abuse, and relationship breakdown. There is little help and support for victims throughout the scam process and even after the scam is over, which not only makes it difficult for victims to get timely and professional assistance after experiencing online scams, but victims even run the risk of being scammed by criminals again afterward, so timely help and professional psychological treatment for victims is of positive significance. In previous studies, there are fewer reports summarizing and analyzing the psychological conditions of victims.”

    Fangzhou Wang, Assistant Professor of Criminology and Criminal Justice, University of Texas at Arlington

    “Our observations indicate that scammers not only diversify their approaches to prompt more responses, such as appealing to their romantic relationships, asking for identifying information and requesting victims switch to private chat platforms, but they also use several techniques for getting victims to overcome their misgivings about sending the scammers more money. For example, scammers subtly persuade victims to see themselves as holding more power in the interaction than they do.”

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